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37 - Colenso, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

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46 - Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa

Sal tot jou verdeel wees ,voel Soos nooit tevore nie .TRY ME😌😌😌😌👌.so...

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30 - Soweto, Gauteng, South Africa

Very. Caring very loving always willing to meet new people and love life love family time and going out for...

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45 - Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Ek is sag en dierbaar mens. Ek waardes respek en morals. En proebeer altyt mooi in alles sien. Ek is 'n baie...

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44 - Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa

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37 - Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

I'm an interesting person honestly and caring who like going out with friends and also making friends and have fun

Online Dating for Young Widows and Widowers in South Africa

At Widows & Widowers South Africa, it is our number one goal to help you connect with other young widows and widowers in a space designed just for you. Dating after loss is a fresh start and can be the ideal pathway to a lasting and fulfilling relationship, rich with its own unique qualities. Meeting somebody who can relate to what you have been through helps build a shared sense of understanding, which can lead to a romance in its own special way.

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If, as a young widow or widower, you feel the time has come to dip your toe in the water and find romance again, there are plenty of opportunities to explore. Whilst clubs and meet-up groups can be helpful, meeting someone who understands the loss of a partner can be an advantage. Widows & Widowers South Africa is a space for you to connect with others who have also lost their partner and who relate to your feelings with empathy and understanding.

Our easy-to-use platform allows you to connect with other young widows and widowers based in towns and cities throughout South Africa. We provide the ideal conditions for romance to flourish, valuing the life experience of each member. Our genuine care and consideration places us at the forefront of young widows and widowers dating in South Africa.

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Deciding to date again will most likely be a difficult decision. You may be feeling guilty at the thought of having somebody new in your life. But finding another partner does not mean you're finding a replacement! Having known the joys of a successful relationship, it is understandable to want to create and explore the happiness you know can be found with a kindred spirit. Meeting other young widows and widowers is the ideal way to help you decide whether you are ready to form a friendship with someone new.

If you would like to learn more about our service, please visit our FAQ section, or alternatively, get in touch! We also have our Community Guidelines and Safety Page to ensure you get the most out of our service. You can also visit our Dating Advice section for tips and guidance on your dating journey.

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Charmaine, 13 February 2025
He contacted me, we started chatting and found out we were a good match. We have the same interests we both are well established and am looking forward to a future together....
Jean-Pierre, 03 February 2025
I think I may just have fallen for her. So a Bob big thank you. It has been a super experience.I thought I liked the other apps cos they look, so clean. Your design is so old and so clunky but there's something that just works I can't put my finger on it. It works well. Bye xx
Theo, 03 May 2025
I have met the MOST AMAZING LADY on this site.Thank you very much.Never thought LOVE will knock me out like this LADY.